Do you have a Facebook page? You probably do. If you’re “of a certain age” you probably signed up for it so you could keep up with your kids and grandkids. If you’re like me, maybe you were also able to reconnect with some of your high school and college friends that you’d lost touch with over the years. You check in every few days and see the latest photos and status updates and maybe you play a game or two. But you really don’t take Facebook too seriously. How about Twitter? Have you signed on to follow your favorite celebrities or sports stars? In this political season the “Twitterverse” is an active, ever-changing landscape of political news, reduced to 140 characters. It’s a fun and mostly-harmless way to catch the latest news an occasionally put in your two-cents worth. You don’t take Twitter too seriously.
But if you aren’t valuing Facebook and Twitter, you might be missing out. Like it or not, social media is where much of our common societal discourse occurs. In many ways, social media like Facebook, Twitter, YouTube and blogs have taken the place of the op-ed page of the newspaper. It’s where we gather together in the digital age. Immediate and worldwide, it’s where people connect, discuss, form opinions, challenge thoughts and pass on what’s important to them. Like anything else, social media is a tool and how you use it and what you use it for determines its value. It’s like learning to speak a new language. It takes practice, including knowing when to talk and when to listen. And social media can’t be a substitute for personal, face-to-face relationships. But if you’;re a Christian, I think you need to include social media in your evangelization.
I’m a Catholic writer and blogger with both Facebook and Twitter accounts. Most everything I post is about faith. But most of you reading this probably use social media for staying in touch with friends and family. What better place to share your faith than with the people in your life? Now before you say, “But I’m not a writer,” or “I wouldn’t know where to begin” —-let me offer you a starting place. This is an idea that’s been around the net for a while, but I think it’s a good starting point.
Tithe your posts and tweets. That’s right, I said “tithe.” As Christians, we already know the Biblical history of tithing our treasure to God. A tithe was a tenth of the animals and produce which the Israelites gave to the Lord’s Temple. We’re called to share a tenth of our gross income with the Church. Why not also dedicate a tenth of your postings and tweets to the Lord’s work? Being a Christian means living and sharing our faith with others. What better place to share the Good News than where everyone is already gathering? You don’t have to be a theologian or priest or Biblical scholar. Start out small. Share your favorite faith author or book. Post a link to the author or the book, but make sure it’s a working link. Learn how to copy and paste URL addresses if you don’t already know. Share a link to your favorite ministry or charity. You’ll educate others about their work and the charity might benefit from a visitor’s donation, too. Share Scripture quotes that are meaningful to you, but don’t just post a verse. Tell your readers why this verse is important to you and how it’s helped enrich your faith life. If you post verses without connecting them to your relationship with Christ, you’ll miss out on making that person-to-person connection that’s at the heart of ministry.
Wow. Did I just say “ministry”? Yep. Using social media to share the Gospel can be a ministry just like leading a prayer group or making sandwiches for a soup kitchen. Post a prayer need you might have. It can be something you want to share with others, or it can remain a private prayer intention. Be a witness to what Christ is doing in your life or in the greater life of your family or your parish. Don’t be shy about sharing both the hills and the valleys of your faith journey. You’re already sharing your vacations, family weddings, graduations and celebrations online—share your faith in Christ as well. And remember I suggested this was a tithing experience. Begin by sharing a tenth of your online presence to God. You’ll be transformed when you invite Christ into your online life. You’ll be a witness to the Gospel. You’ll be enriched by the feedback you’ll get from others. But be wary, too. Sharing your faith means you’ll be challenged at times. You might even be ridiculed and mocked. Social media has a strong anti-faith presence. So be wary, but be fearless. Be like the Apostles and boldly share your love for Christ. Sow the seeds of the Good News in your corner of the internet and pray that the Holy Spirit will allow them to take root and bear good fruit. Working together for Him, we can help use the internet for His great purpose.
“In the world, you will have trouble. But have courage; I have conquered the world.”
—The Gospel of St. John 16:33
Your Digital Faith
29 Apr 2012 Leave a comment
Next Generation Church
28 Apr 2012 1 Comment
“Christ is knocking very hard at many hearts, looking for young people like you to send into the vineyard where an abundant harvest is ready.”
—Pope John Paul II, World Youth Day, Denver, 1993
What Mass ISN’T
24 Apr 2012 Leave a comment
Praying For Those Who Have Died
22 Apr 2012 Leave a comment
“Eternal Father, I offer Thee the Most Precious Blood Of Thy Divine Son, Jesus, in union with the Masses said throughout the world today, for all the holy souls in Purgatory, for sinners everywhere, for sinners in the Universal Church, those in my own home and within my own family. Amen.”
–the prayer of St. Gertrude the Great (1256-1301)
The Gift of Our Souls to God
18 Apr 2012 Leave a comment
A newborn baby. Is there anything in the world more beautiful and more innocent? In a tiny baby, we can see ourselves when we were new to the world. In their little grasping fingers that reach out to touch and explore to their wide, seeking eyes that drink in the light and colors of the world around them—babies find everything worthy of their attention. The world to them is a place of beauty, adventure and goodness. We see in them the beauty, adventure and goodness of a soul created in love by God and made in His likeness. We see the innocent purity of a freshly-minted soul, unstained by sinful thoughts or actions. Before the age of reason, about seven years of age or so, only original sin mars the beauty of the soul in any way. This inherited sin of Adam and Eve is washed clean at baptism. After we receive this Sacrament, our newborn soul truly reflects our Maker’s love and divine goodness. We are His sinless child.
The Lord made us to be like Him. He created you and me “in His image” (Genesis 1:27). It is in our souls that we mirror God, not in the flesh and bones of our mortal bodies, good as they are. Our spirit or soul is what makes us human and is a reflection of the living God. Catholics believe that we are created by God at the moment of our conception, fully whole and fully human. We aren’t just tissue that becomes a human at the time of birth. No. From that first moment of life, we are a human being. God’s greatest gift to each of us is the precious gift of our own lives, which He planned from the beginning of time.
In our journey through life, our choices affect the state of our souls. When we sin against our neighbor, that sin wounds our relationship with God. Sin also sounds our souls. This wound can be large and deep, or small and shallow, but there are consequences to every sin. When we confess our sins in the Sacrament of Reconciliation that wound is healed. But a scar remains. That scar is any attachment to the sin that remains within us. Over a lifetime, the marks of our sinful choices leave a map on our eternal souls. What will your map reveal at the end of your life? Just as God gave you the gift of life and an eternal soul, the gift of your soul is what you’ll give back to Him upon your death. Jesus shares with us the parable of the talents (Matthew 25:14-30) which illustrates what we are to do with the gifts He gives to us. He calls us to be Christ to one another, to care for one another, to love one another and to offer ourselves to help Him build the Kingdom of God. In short, we’re called to live like Jesus so that when we meet the Master, we can hear Him say to us: “Well done my good and faithful servant….Come share your Master’s joy”(Matthew 25:21).
We’re entrusted at birth with an eternal soul. At the end of our lives, we’ll present this soul back to the Lord. Our offering to Him will be the summation of all the choices we’ve made in our lives and all the mercy and forgiveness we’ve begged of Him. Jesus established a Church to shepherd and guide us through our earthly lives (Matthew 16:18). He didn’t want us to try and figure things out on our own. Through His Church we can receive the grace of His Sacraments and the mercy of His forgiveness. He will make an accounting of our lives, like the Master evaluated the servants in the parable. In our case, the riches God gave to us our are very souls. Like the newborn, we were once pure and innocent of sin or scar. Have we loved as He loved? Have we shown mercy to those around us? Have we forgiven others, not once or twice, but seventy times seven? Have we given of our gifts and treasure without counting the cost? Life is our journey to become more like Jesus so that at the end of our time on earth we can be with Him forever. What will your gift to God be like?
“Go forth, O Christian soul, out of this world in the name of God the Father Almighty Who created you; in the name of Jesus Christ Who suffered for you; in the name of the Holy Spirit Who sanctified you.”
—From “Commending the Soul to God,” the traditional Catholic prayer for a dying person
New Church, Old Church
15 Apr 2012 Leave a comment
When You Need Hope
11 Apr 2012 Leave a comment
“Woman, why are you weeping? Whom are you looking for? “(John 20:15). Mary Magdalene has gone to Jesus’ tomb and found Him gone. Her friend was dead and she felt lost and alone. They had killed Him and now they’d even taken His body away. There was nothing she could do now but weep for her lost Savior and her lost hope.
When was the last time you felt like everything you loved was lost? All of us have been where Mary was that morning. We’ve all been so devastated by a loss that we didn’t anticipate and couldn’t see our way through. Maybe we lost someone to death. Or divorce. Or abandonment. Our dream job was “downsized.” Our usually-healthy body was laid low by an accident or a serious illness. We’ve been betrayed by someone we trusted with our whole heart. Mary Magdalene had put her faith in Jesus and His promise of new life. She had hoped in Christ. Now, in His tomb, she wept because it was all gone. In that moment for her, hope was nowhere to be found. And that’s when Christ asks her: “Whom are you looking for?” You see, Christ was there with her all the time. He was there in the midst of Mary’s despair and hopelessness. He saw every tear and heard every sob. No one knows abandonment like Jesus. His friends fell asleep in the Garden and ran away into the night when the soldiers came for Him. He knows what it feels like for friends to leave you alone. He knows what it feels like to be betrayed by a friend and sold out. He’s been there. His closest friend denied even knowing him and not once, but three times.
When we’re in a tomb of loneliness and we feel betrayed and abandoned, the question Jesus asked of Mary is the one we need to ask ourselves: “Whom are you looking for?” We want acceptance and affirmation. We want to be valued. We want to feel needed and cherished. We want the wounds of our childhood and past relationships to be bound up and healed. We want to feel good enough. We want to be loved for the person that we are. We want to be needed because we’re valuable and unique. We want to be treated with dignity and respect. We need to feel like we matter to another person. We need to be affirmed and supported in our decisions and choices. And yet most of us are disappointed. Most of us, at some point in our lives, have the experience of Mary Magdalene. In those moments before she recognized the risen Christ speaking to her, Mary was at the lowest point of her life. We’ve all been there. Lost, alone, disappointed and hopeless. It’s the moment Easter was made for.
Easter says to us: “You are loved just the way you are, with all your sins and wounds and shortcomings. You are My unique and priceless child, formed by My own hands. I made the universe for you. I put the sun and moon and stars in place, just for you. You’re the reason I left heaven, to be born as one of you, to live and die on a Cross so that we can be together forever. You are the reason for Good Friday. You’re the reason for Easter morning.” When Mary Magdalene heard Jesus call her by name, she recognized Him at last. Jesus knows you by name, down to the number of hairs on your head and the DNA of your cells. He knows your joys and your fears, all your hopes and every one of your sins. And He came that “you might have life and have it to the full” (John 10:10). This is the promise of Easter, fulfilled by the empty tomb Mary found that morning. So…..Whom are you looking for?
“Now let the heavens be joyful, Let earth her song begin: Let the round world keep triumph, And all that is therein; Invisible and visible, Their notes let all things blend, For Christ the Lord is risen Our joy that hath no end.”
—Saint John of Damascus
Easter Conversion
10 Apr 2012 Leave a comment
I was nineteen when I came into the Catholic Church. Over the years since that day, I’ve converted thousands of times. Oh yes, it wasn’t a one-time event for me. I didn’t experience a lightning strike of pure, holy, and enduring faith that immediately and forevermore transformed me into a perfect follower of Jesus Christ. No “road to Damascus” moment for me. I was baptized and confirmed on a Saturday afternoon and received my first Holy Communion at Mass the next morning. And on Monday, I went right back to my sinning ways. It wasn’t the Church’s fault by any means. Good spiritual Mother that she is, I had everything I needed for holiness in the Sacraments and in the support of parish life. It wasn’t the fault of my family or friends either: they had supported and affirmed my becoming Catholic. No, my sins were – and are – no one’s fault but my own.
The word “convert” comes from the Latin and means “to turn around.” When I converted to my Catholic faith, I turned around from the sinful road I’d been travelling and gave myself to Jesus. I turned away from sin to embrace the mercy and love of Jesus Christ. I turned away from sin and turned to the Gospel. I turned away from self and turned to Jesus. As a child I had seen people in my protestant church as they went forward at the end of the service to “get saved.” Sometimes they knelt down and prayed with the pastor. Sometimes they cried. Afterwards, people would gather around them and shake their hands, congratulating them on the moment of their faith. It didn’t make sense to me, even at that age, that Jesus did the “saving” but folks offered their congratulations to the sinner. And there was a finality to the “altar call” moment. Once saved, always saved, they taught. Hmmm. I came to Christ in His presence in the Holy Eucharist. He called to me in the sacrifice of the Mass. He spoke to me in the writings and testimonies of the early Church fathers and in the Gospels of the New Testament. I saw Him revealed in the lives of the Saints and in the good and holy priests who taught me at university. God’s mercy pursued me until I was baptized and confirmed. I converted. I turned to Christ and every day, I convert anew.
He calls to me in my sin and I turn to Him once more. He speaks to my sinful heart and once again, I announce my guilt and beg for His mercy and forgiveness. I make my confession and I convert again and again. I sin and am ashamed and He comes to me in my self-loathing and begs me to look at His face, there on the Cross. His outstretched arms hold me to His Sacred Heart and He whispers His love and forgiveness. I convert again. My salvation is a journey and not just a past event. Jesus has saved me. Jesus is saving me. Jesus will save me. I hear Him and I convert. My sin drowns His voice and deadens my heart. He never stops calling to me. In my sin, He loves me. In my sin, He died for me. In the dark abyss of my foul sin, His hand leads me to Golgotha and once more, I convert.
In this Easter week, may we be aware of His presence in our lives. Pray that Christ will give you the faith to know you are completely dependent upon Him. Ask Him to reveal His great love for you in His sacrifice of the Cross. Turn away from your sins and beg His forgiveness in the Sacrament of Confession. Be a convert in your own way and return again to Him. Stay with Him on Thursday as He shares the first Eucharist with the Apostles. Pray with Him in the garden as He struggles and fears what is to come, submitting perfectly to His Father’s will. Walk with Him in chains to His trials and scourging. Share His sadness as St. Peter denies knowing Him. On Friday, stand with St. John and His Blessed Mother at the foot of the cross, and know the depth of His love revealed. This week we convert again from our sins and glory in the greatest love the world has ever known. Love, lifted up on a cross that has saved you, is saving you and will save you. Alleluia!
“…like the ooze of virgin oil crushed in the press of God’s hands, an anointing, a yielding, a yes.”
– Gerard Manley Hopkins, English poet and Catholic convert (1844-1889)
God Thinks About You All The Time
08 Apr 2012 Leave a comment
Christ Came For One Person: YOU
05 Apr 2012 Leave a comment
Who exactly did He come for? He tells us He came for the hungry. Have you ever been hungry? Sure, hungry for food. But what else have you hungered for? Love? Acceptance? Happiness? Then He came for you. He came for all the starving, the anxious, empty, famished and unfilled. He came for anyone who’s ever felt weak or hollow or faint. He came for the unfed, the undernourished, the ones yearning and pining and wishing for more. For the one’s who’ve never felt good enough, or smart enough, or pretty enough, or just, enough. He came to feed you with Himself.